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My life is blessed with a wonderful husband of 47 years, Darrell Lee Selke. Together we have had quite an adventure. A wedding in 1970, four kids; turning into a Gibbie and a Poppie with 13 grankids ...and staying joyful as we truly give God glory for such abundant blessings all along the way. We've had our challenges as all families do, but life is good because God is good. I love being a wife, mother, grandmother, daughter, sister, aunt, and friend. We're excited about the future and looking forward to the next adventure God has for us,just around the corner I'm sure.

Wednesday, February 27, 2008

Fiddle-dee-dee

'Sleepy' is my word for the afternoon. I am about to fall headlong onto my desk here at work because of it. So, I thought I'd start typing and see what happens. I have no idea what I'm about to say. Let me think.... what is that rolling around in my head? Not much I'm afraid. It's quiet here except for the air blowing through the air-conditioning system, and the buzz of this computer. My phone is not ringing and I rarely hear another voice. However, just as I typed that last sentence, the cleaning lady came off the elevator and rolled her big trash can with brooms and cleaning paraphernalia across the tiles of the foyer which is always a bit irritating and makes me furrow my brow daily until she hits the carpet. I think the football coaches are outside or out of town and no one is at the ticket office window arguing about the rising cost of simply trying to enjoy a collegiate game or event. I've emailed precious friends and family all day long and then I was about to leave for my lunch hour to shop for some comfortable black shoes for my trip to Spain at a store named Belk which reminds me of the word 'belch'. Nevertheless, they are having an amazing sale there so I thought I'd take advantage of it. However, my precious husband called just then and... I still find him irresitable. He had driven a school bus full of hyper active elementary children downtown to the Hippodrome to let them and their teachers off to see a dramatic production of some kind. He then parked the bus and strolled along Austin Avenue seeing whatever there was to see. Not much he said. He had some time on his hands, so we decided to have lunch together. Our mid-day get-together, through circumstances we did not anticipate, became frustrating to say the least. Not because of him or me, but because we tried a little sandwich shop downtown and there was NO parking anywhere close! I got wedged into one spot we learned was not supposed to be a parking place at all, was nearly completely blocked in by a woman in a big truck and then after getting loose by maneuvering an interesting five or six point turn (I'm not sure which) ending with a sore neck and stiff joints in my fingers from turning the steering wheel so many times; I left my husband standing on the sidewalk. I had to drive around the block and park two traffic lights away from the sandwich shop. Praise God for a sunshiny day and the sweater I was wearing. We finally got to the 'order line' only to be told by a toothless elderly woman to come order at the 'checkout line'. Whatever. We both wanted turkey on wheat bread and cheddar cheese because that was all they had besides Swiss; and then they said they were out of wheat bread. What a nightmare! "No wheat?" I said. Well, there was no way we were going to eat white bread! So, just as said husband was about to give up and leave, the manager came through with those little paper boats for French fries stacked up to her chin and said not to worry she'd fix our sandwiches on the bigger wheat buns with no extra charge. Come to find out when we got our order, the bigger buns were so hot we literally could barely touch them and we were running out of time. The sandwich consisted mostly of shredded lettuce to make it look bigger I imagine. Well, we shoveled off the lettuce, wrapped napkins like little potholders around our bigger buns and ate a fairly yummy half sandwich. I wasn't about to see what we'd have to go through to get a to-go box. Another point of frustration was that my sweetie who was by this time rather grumpy, had to keep watching down the street the whole entire time to where all the school buses were parked so that he wouldn't miss seeing a possible stampede of, in his words, rugrats, who he had delivered with the intention of broadening their horizons and cultural experience. Needless to say, we ate in virtual silence and were anything but relaxed, mentioning only briefly how our kids were doing and what lay ahead this weekend as we look forward to helping move our oldest daughter and her family to a different house. We walked back to my car commenting on the demolition going on down the block from where we were. A tall building, for Waco anyway, that's being renovated from a nursing home to the up and coming loft apartments of our thriving metropolis. We talked about how dangerous it would be to walk down the sidewalk underneath the windows where getting hit on the head with a stray brick could be a very real possibility and how irresponsible it was to leave the broken yellow 'caution' tape flapping in the breeze. Needless to say, we stayed away from that side of the street. My hubby apologized for being so grumpy, we kissed good-bye (that's a good sign) and rather than giving him a lift on down the block to his bus, he opted to walk off our exasperating lunch date. All that to say, the sun is still shining, the temperatures are rising, and it's getting closer to 5:00 than it was before I started this rambling blog entry that most likely... no one will read. At least I'm not asleep with imprints of telephone keys on my cheek.

Friday, February 15, 2008

Weirdness...

OK, I'm really going to try to enter into this insanity of figuring out what is weird about me so I can share it with you. True confessions... why am I doing this?!! Now, that's weird enough in and of itself, isn't it? Hmmmm... seven things weird about me.... no, now there's only six I believe or eight if I go ahead and do seven 'numbered' weird things. :0)
7. I cannot stand clipped nails off fingers or toes except for my own. Just gives me chills to think about it.
6. Some people say I'm 'too nice'... whatever that means... and it irks them when I refuse to say mean things about my husband or children in public. My family is not perfect, but I wouldn't want them to sit around with folks and tell all of my faults and weaknesses. Why would I do that to them?
5. I can't stand to rub anyone's feet except my own children's or grandchildren and even as old as they are, their feet still don't gross me out. However, I LOVE for my husband to rub my feet.
4. I tend to sometimes be self-centered wanting my own way even when it's not important.
3. When I overeat or snack 'til I can snack no more, I will clean up the kitchen and somehow rationalize that in hiding the evidence it's not quite as fattening. Good grief!
2. I hate to shop! I will shop in an emergency or to hang out with my girls who love it, but I am not a woman who enjoys shopping.
1. I would love to hang-glide, but fear still grips me so much about the possibility of falling that at this point I'd never really try it.
How's that for starters? I'm sure there are many other quirks about myself I just don't see or refuse to face, but I'm working on it. Somehow confessing the eating/cleaning the kitchen thing has lifted a burden and I'm hopeful deliverance is close at hand.

Thursday, February 14, 2008

Ponderings on Valentine's Day and Adversity...

Happy Valentine's Day! A wonderful day when the world celebrates love. Not just sweetheart love, although having a sweetheart to celebrate with is so.... well.... so sweet. :0) But here we all are with another day. What a belssing I think, to have it; a day with joys, sorrows, frustrations, surprises, sadness, laughter and sometimes tears... and choices to make which will either bring life or destruction. I've decided to choose love and in doing that I am choosing life. I think that's better no matter what, don't you? Circumstances may be hard because of the stuff life is sure to throw at us, but to choose love in the midst of it is what will surely and most certainly hold us together; mentally, emotionally, relationally, and spiritually. I read a prophetic word today that hit the spot and since there is nothing new under the sun, I'm sure it will hit your spot as well; if not today then in the near future. I've been downhearted over a couple... or maybe three things most recently and I think through every single one God was using them to grow me into more of His likeness. I don't always learn easily, but I think I may be getting the hang of it the older I get. Eternity will tell, won't it? Anyway, regarding adversity, I hope this blesses you as it did me.
February 14, 2008. The Lord would lovingly say to us, "I know the difficulties you face. It is a part of everyday living. When you follow Me there will always be hard times. Do I cause them? Absolutely not. Do I allow them? Yes. When I gave My children the Promise Land enemies were in the land to teach how to overcome. They became strong and so do you depending on Me and each other. John 15:5 "I am the vine, you are the branches; he who abides in Me and I in him, he bears much fruit, for apart from Me you can do nothing."